Winner.

One time Bhagavan in Rajagaha, at Veluvana, nurturing place the squirrel. Asurindaka Bharadvaja Brahmin heard the following: "Brahmin family of Bharadvaja was ordained to Bhagavan, abandoned the family, no family life." 
Wrath, not happy, he went to the Blessed One, after arrival, there are no good words, bad language, defamatory and berating Bhagavan. 
being heard this, Bhagavan kept silent. 
Then Asurindaka Bharadvaja Brahmin told Bhagavan: 
Hey recluses, He was conquer. This recluses, He conquered! 
Exalted (said shelves): 
A fool thinks himself win / When evil language say / Who knows bear patience / But he really won the battle / Those who vilified / Back hazelnut ascites people / But he do his evil / evil again made to the / Those who vilified / No defamation against / he won the match / Win yourself for who / he find benefits / for both oneself and others / And who defames / Self-understanding, nervous cooled / y Tier associate both / cure yourself, heal people / masses think is stupid / so do not understand the Dharma. 
Being heard this, Brahmin Asurindaka white Bharadvaja Bhagavan: It's rather wonderful, venerable Gotama! ... Now I take refuge Venerable Gotama, refuge Dharma and Sangha. Looking forward to be ordained to the venerable Gotama. It is the ultimate supreme virtue, even in position to win now with their self realization, attainment and residing. He knew: "Birth was seeking, Virtue has set, it should have done, no longer return to this state again." 
And the Venerable Bharadvaja become an arahant too.

ANSWER DESK: 
In daily life, many people have the habit of using language cruel, rude words to verbally abused, humiliated to suppress, conquer the enemy. They gloat, labor agreements and see themselves as victors flat while the other subject, silence is not sparring, before the spokesman patience vulgar, cruel. Also so that verbal, reviled, reviled always happen from indoors to the mall and not at the unfortunate, tragic in life was rooted here. 
However, according to the wisdom of Bhagavan who knows silence, patience, not cursed back when verbally abused, not when his defamatory libel by another person ... is the real winner. By sparring back departments will lead to conflict and make sure you and the other person are affected, heavy damage.The victors, according to Bhagavan, is due patience should avoid unnecessary damage to the network itself, honor and property due to hatred and delusion aggression, conflict created. On the other hand, her endurance is the most effective treatment to quell anger where man and awaken their knowledge in mind.
Often the only regret when it was too late, when the dust had settled. Human ignorance obscuring karma so that patience is weakness, not wise, as fools. In fact, the Buddha always taught that patience is angry therapies most effective for both ourselves and for others to be at peace with my father and he has collected experience of our ancestors should always command line prompt posterity "it is fast, fresh cooked things."END=NAM MO AMITABHA BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH GIAC TAM.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTENMENT.VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN AMITABHA PURELAND=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.25/11/2016.